I have to admit that most of my experiences of group sex haven’t been too good although I have had a few memorable ones that have been worth the effort. In fact my very first sexual encounter was with two other guys which was something akin to leaping into the deep end. Anyway in this guide I’ll try and talk you through the golden rules of three way action

Rule 1. Don’t use the threesome to try and pull a guy with a boyfriend.

Now this isn’t to say don’t go for guys with partners, some couples really like spicing up their sex lives by bringing other guys in, but just be aware there are two other people involved and you shouldn’t be doing this just because you want to get into one of the pairs underwear.

Rule 2. All people should be treated equally.

Like the above rule, sometimes there is one lad who is mighty fine and one who isn’t. However it would be very bad form for you to just ignore the poor boy. Make sure you pay attention to everyone in the group. Just think how you’d feel if you were the one being totally ignored at the side of the bed.

Rule 3. Play it safe.

Even if you’re in a couple who are totally clean, make sure you use protection. There would be nothing worse than if that guy you invited back left you something to remember him by. Also even if the other guys swear that they are totally clean and assure you that you’ll be fine, take precautions, tis better to be safe than sorry after all.

Rule 4. Keep it clean.

Not in bed obviously, be as dirty as you like sexually for all I care. What I mean just simple stuff, shower, douche, spray. You don’t want to be remembered as the smelly dirty lad after all now do you?

Rule 5. Respect limits.

Sometimes it’s easy to get carried away in the moment, especially if the other guys are older and more experienced than you are, but just because they’re doing something doesn’t mean that you should feel pressured into doing it. This could be anything from using poppers and viagra to doing sexual stuff that you don’t want to, if you feel happy going a bit further than usual then by all means take the opportunity to learn something new, but don’t do it just because everyone else is. And on the other side, don’t force people to do anything they don’t want to, shame on you for even thinking it.

Rule 6. The threesome is not a cure for a bad relationship

It’s not a good idea to bring in another guy to spice up your sex life if you’re bored with your boi, indeed if your relationship is already on thin ice, then it can be, to use a cliché, the straw that broke the camels back. Threesomes won’t not fix a failing relationship (that‘s something that needs a much longer article) They‘re much more fun for couples in strong relationships that want to experiment.

Rule 7. Don’t get wrecked

Most threesomes I’ve been involved in have in some way involved quite a few beers. Just keep in mind that although having a few drinks to help you relax is totally cool, getting wasted on drugs and drink is not such a good thing. It can hinder physical and mental performance, and is a turn off for many people. Anyway if you need to drink heavily to participate then maybe the guy isn’t the guy for you.

Rule 8. Have fun.

It’s not supposed to be about the close emotional involvement that sex with your boyfriend would, it’s supposed to be fun, so just lay back and enjoy yourself, and if you don’t enjoy it then maybe you’re doing it wrong