Most men judge another man by how he looks. Is this true? The simple answer is we’d like to think not. Hopefully, we are a bit more complex than that! Before being really attracted to you they'll weigh you up as a complete package, and not just take you on your looks.  But we are attracted to men who've made an effort. After all, we have probably spent 3 hours getting! Here are my personal tips to getting what you want, perhaps not when you want it though...

What to wear... Well I'd like to say as little as possible but I wont, wear what you feel comfortable in, how will anybody else like you if you don’t like yourself??   Jeans have proven to be very popular and I have personally have fallen in love with Fire Trap pants (the ones with all those long tassels) smelling gorgeous is always a must to, I absolutely love DKNY and CK Be at the moment and wearing both of these together.

I think I live in a world of my own, head always up in the clouds you’d swear I was blond. Il talk to anybody, I've got a happy go lucky attitude and a stupid grin on my face most of the time so people just come and talk to me

I like personally to be approached rather than approaching others, there is still a way however you can make them approach you by making the first move. Like in step no 1 go and sit next to somebody you like the look of and don’t say anything, like in step one they will probably talk to you, if not it’s a good idea to have a bottle of water with you, this is your way of starting the conversation. Offer them some water its nearly a certainty that they will accept and then take things from there, I know by half way through the night I'm ready to start diluting the alcohol in my system

I like personally to be approached by other guys; I don’t do the chasing, although it’s always good to be prepared. If you see the look of some one you like and feel you cant talk to them, get one of your friends to do your dirty work for you. I went out last week and was dancing with one of my friends, I happened to mention I liked the look of this guy near us, she went and had a word in his ear and the next thing I knew he came over and kissed me. (Note to self I must find out what she said to him so I can tell you guys).

Sweets, I know this one sounds a bit dodgy but bear with me lol, when I go out I find after a lot of drinking you tend to get the munchies that’s why I love to have a pocket full of lolly’s offer them round, also I suppose its my alternative to smoking.

Don't expect anything form a night out, I've found if you go out with the mind set of “got to cop off with somebody” then chances are you won’t, just go out to have a good time and you will, nine times out of ten, find somebody to get to know a little better.

Another amazing thing I've found is if you take out a straight girly friend who you can dance very dirty with, people stop and take note, I was in a bar over the weekend and this guy and girl had an amazing dance routine, everybody was watching them and he didn’t have to buy a drink all night, so maybe the guy of your dreams will talk to your friend if he’s a little shy or straight to you if not, so he can get to know you a little better.