Eight socialite solutions that will improve your love life, sex life and social life!

1. Stop gossiping so much, and watch your behaviour around people. If you live in a small town you have a better chance of winning the lottery than you do of changing your social reputation.

2. Focus! Turning your head 360 degrees when you see a hot guy (while you're already with one) isn't the best way to end an evening...

3. Axe the "ex" word... The term shouldn't even come up in the first five dates!

4. Look beyond the personal ads and hyped up self loving boys. Truth isn't always in the advertisement, remember one key rule: when his actions tell you who he is, believe them.

5. Don't spill your guts emotionally to your new beau, you're in the honeymoon period and getting heavy too quick is bad news. Tell is to a friend instead...

6. Get together... With your friends that is, introduce him to your mates as quick as you can, he'll feel part of the group, its also a great way to move away from your bedroom that you've both been sharing for the past month!

7. Slow things down. You don't HAVE to get married, you don't have to get your own place with him. Take your time, relax and you're dreams will come true...

8. Be clear about what you want... The honeymoon period is over, now is the time to decide if your hot new guy can sustain your attraction, interest you and make you happy, and do you do the same in return? Make sure you're both really into it, and you're on your way to a lasting relationship.